Even as a child we learn what is desired by our environment and what is not. If the child as such and such a long silence, then it gets the desired toy. We focus more and more after the IF-THEN principle - like a computer program. We behave differently when we spontaneously feel the need for it to get something later desired. We learn that the people love us when we behave the way they want it. We learn that we can not be honest. Honesty is indecent. My Grandmother once said on the occasion of her 70th Birthday: "Oh, now I am an old woman ..." I said. "Yes, that's right" She was very offended ... and my parents said, "No, no, you're still young," and looked at me angrily.
noted the latest in the youth we that we never can make all the right and see the world very unfair and unjust. For this teacher we act, the other way when colleagues have a different way and with their parents or in a different way ... After all, we want to be loved ... Something seems wrong with us. Perhaps it also has to do with our appearance, or our race ... We are not the way we should be.
We feel increasingly disoriented - get lost sometimes here sometimes there ... Often the rescue as a hobby, with which we can identify with, belonging to a group of people, whether as a fan of a rock band or a political grouping, etc. . Maybe we can find solace in drugs, in sex or in the work.
The more we can do - in school, in sports, the more recognition and sometimes envy and jealousy, we reap.
We define ourselves through our performance and self-worth is high or very low ...
Eventually comes the great depression, illness or simply the question of meaning ... but we have to earn their special someone and a lot of money.
What we lost on this earth?
some point - we often go through years of ups and downs - we know - that we have lost even in the ideas, desires and expectations of others and of awakening, the awakening begins with ourselves.
The start to this state ... as we were one with our mother and father with the existence in our body on this earth - with all the experience we have now.
some point we discover in the bathroom mirror greatest love of our lives - our self--. From that moment on - where we have found ourselves - we see a new earth. We are, as we are. We are perfect. We are coming to life with love and gratitude.
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